
Edge United Methodist Church

I share reflections, stories, and lessons from my journey of caring for myself so I can better care for others.
April 10th, 2026 Scripture: Galatians 5:13 "Serve one another humbly in love." Devotion: God often works through ordinary people doing ordinary acts of kindness. Every time we offer encouragement, lend a helping hand, or simply take time to listen, we become part of His work in the world. Care begins when we notice others and respond with compassion. Small acts of love can create a lasting impact. Tip: Look for one opportunity today to help someone in a simple and meaningful way. Reminder: Care grows when compassion turns into action. Care in the community begins with something simple but powerful: love and compassion. Every day, we have opportunities to notice people around us who may need support. It could be a neighbor who feels lonely, a friend going through a difficult season, or someone at church who needs help with a meal or a ride. When we slow down and truly see others, we begin to understand what care looks like in real life. Care is not always big or planned. Often, it is found in small moments where we choose kindness. In the Wesleyan tradition, faith is always on the move. John Wesley believed that faith was never meant to be private or passive. Instead, it grows in community, is tested through love, and is demonstrated through action. One of his most well known teachings was that there is no holiness but social holiness. What I love about that idea is that it reminds us that our relationship with God is deeply connected to how we treat other people. We cannot separate loving God from caring for our neighbors. Every time we show compassion, listen with patience, or step in to help someone, we are living out our faith in a visible way. Caregiving is one of the clearest examples of this. In the United Methodist tradition, we often talk about the means of grace. These are the ways God shapes us through prayer, worship, Scripture, Communion, and Christian community. Over the years, I have come to believe that caregiving can also be a means of grace. When we sit with someone who is afraid, grace is present. When we remain patient during a difficult moment, grace is present. When we choose compassion instead of convenience, grace becomes visible. Caregiving is not only something we do for others. It is something that changes us as well. As we care, our hearts become softer. We become more patient, more understanding, and more aware of what others may be carrying. Our faith grows because we are putting it into practice. We begin to discover that God is not only present in church services. He is present in hospital rooms, living rooms, nursing homes, classrooms, recovery programs, rideshares, and quiet conversations between friends. One of the things I love most about Mighty Caregivers is seeing care happen in everyday places. I see people checking on neighbors. I see people encouraging friends. I see people sharing resources and offering support. Most of these acts will never make the news, yet they matter deeply. Providing care in the community does not require special training or a perfect plan. It starts with a willing heart. It begins when we ask, "How can I help?" and remain open to the answer. When we choose to care with love and compassion, we become part of something bigger than ourselves. We become part of a living faith that brings hope, connection, and grace into the lives of others. And in the process, we often discover that God is changing our hearts too.
April 11th, 2026 Scripture: Colossians 3:23 "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord." Devotion: Caregiving is not always easy. It requires time, patience, energy, and love. There will be days when you feel tired and wonder if your efforts are making a difference. Yet God is present in every act of care. When we choose to serve others with compassion, He uses those moments to shape our hearts and strengthen our faith. Caring for others becomes more than a task. It becomes an opportunity to serve God. Tip: When you feel tired today, pause for a moment and pray, "God, help me right now." Reminder: God is present in every act of love. Providing care takes a lot of energy. It asks for your time, your focus, and your heart. Some days, you may feel tired or worn out. But even in those moments, something important is happening. When you consistently show up with love, you demonstrate your love for God. You are saying, "I am here," even when it is hard. In the Wesleyan tradition, shaped by John Wesley, we talk about means of grace. These are ways God helps us grow through prayer, reading Scripture, worship, and Christian community. Over the years, I have come to believe that caregiving can be a means of grace as well. When you care for someone with love, God is working in that moment. When you sit with someone who is afraid, grace is there. When you are patient, even when you feel tired, grace is working. When you choose kindness instead of taking the easy way, grace becomes visible. These moments may seem small, but they matter more than we realize. One of the things I learned during my years working in senior living is that some of the most meaningful moments were often the quietest. They were not the big events or the programs that took weeks to plan. They were the conversations in the hallway. The resident who needed someone to listen. The family member who needed reassurance. The person who simply needed to know they were not alone. Those moments taught me that caregiving is not just something we do for others. It is something God does in us and through us. As we care for people, our hearts begin to change. We become more patient. More understanding. More compassionate. We start seeing people differently. We begin to notice needs that we once overlooked. We discover that real love is often quiet and steady. Keeping your energy does not mean you always feel strong. It means staying connected to God. Over the years, I have learned that some of the most powerful prayers are also the shortest. Sometimes all we can say is, "God, help me right now." And somehow, He does. Strength comes. Peace comes. The next step becomes clear. You may start to notice God in places you never expected. Not just in church, but in homes, hospitals, nursing homes, recovery programs, classrooms, and simple conversations. You may begin to see Christ in the people you are caring for. You may also discover that Christ is walking beside you, giving you exactly what you need for the moment. That is what it means for caregiving to be a means of grace. It is not about being perfect. It is about showing up with love. And when we do, caregiving becomes more than helping another person. It becomes one of the ways we love God.
April 12th, 2026 Scripture: Galatians 6:2 "Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." Devotion: Sometimes the greatest act of care is simply being present. We do not always need the perfect words or a solution to every problem. God often works through our willingness to sit beside someone, listen, and remind them they are not alone. Small moments of compassion can carry a burden, lift a spirit, and bring hope to another person's day. Tip: Spend a few extra minutes today with someone who may need encouragement. Reminder: Being present is one of the greatest gifts you can give. One of the most important lessons I learned during my years working in senior living is that caregiving is not always about fixing problems. Sometimes it is simply about being present. I remember a resident who spent much of her day sitting by herself near a window. She would watch the world go by. Some days she watched the birds outside. Other days she watched visitors coming and going. Most of the time, she sat quietly, keeping to herself. One afternoon, I noticed a staff member pull up a chair beside her. They talked for a few minutes. Then they sat quietly together before the staff member returned to work. The next day, I saw the same thing happen again. And then again the following day. Eventually, I asked the staff member about it. She told me that the resident reminded her of her grandmother. She noticed that the resident often sat alone and thought she might enjoy some company. That was all there was to it. There was no special program. No recognition. No reward. Just one person deciding to spend a few minutes with another person. Over time, I noticed something begin to change. The resident smiled more often. She became more engaged with the people around her. She seemed lighter somehow. Her circumstances had not changed, but she no longer felt quite so alone. That experience taught me something I have never forgotten. Many people are not looking for someone to solve their problems. They are looking for someone to walk beside them while they face them. As caregivers, we often feel pressure to have answers. We want to know the right thing to say. We want to fix what is wrong. Yet some of the most meaningful moments of care happen when we simply show up and stay present. I think about this whenever I hear someone say they are not a caregiver. If you have ever sat with a friend during a difficult season, listened to someone who needed to talk, checked on a neighbor, or spent time with someone who felt lonely, you have provided care. You carried part of their burden. You reminded them they were not alone. That is exactly what Paul was talking about when he encouraged us to carry one another's burdens. We do not do it through grand gestures. Most of the time, we do it through simple acts of kindness and presence. God often works through those moments. A conversation. A visit. A phone call. A chair pulled up next to someone who needs a friend. The world tells us that bigger is better. Caregiving teaches us something different. Sometimes the smallest moments make the biggest difference.
April 13th, 2026 Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:10 "If either of them falls down, one can help the other up." Devotion: God created us to live in community. We were never meant to carry every burden by ourselves. Sometimes we are the ones offering support. Other times we are the ones who need encouragement, guidance, or a helping hand. There is strength in allowing others to walk beside us. Giving and receiving care are both part of God's design. Tip: Ask for help today if there is something you have been trying to carry alone. Reminder: You do not have to do everything by yourself. I believe something simple and powerful: everyone needs help sometimes. It may be you. It may be someone you love. Or it may be a neighbor quietly trying to carry more than they can handle. No one is meant to walk through those moments alone. Over the years, I have noticed that asking for help is often harder than offering it. Many of us are willing to step in and support someone else, but when it comes to our own struggles, we try to carry the weight by ourselves. We tell ourselves we can handle it. We convince ourselves that we do not want to bother anyone. Yet life has a way of reminding us that we all need each other. I remember talking with a caregiver who spent years helping everyone around her. She cared for family members, checked on neighbors, volunteered at church, and was always the first person to offer support when someone was struggling. Then one day, she faced a challenge of her own. At first, she tried to handle it by herself. She did not want to ask for help. She felt like she should be strong enough to manage it alone. But eventually, people began showing up for her the same way she had shown up for them. Friends brought meals. Neighbors checked in. People prayed for her and offered encouragement. What surprised her most was how much those simple acts meant. She later told me that receiving care was harder than giving it, but it also reminded her how loved she truly was. I think many caregivers can relate to that. We often spend so much time helping others that we forget we are allowed to receive help too. We forget that strength is not about carrying every burden by ourselves. Sometimes strength is allowing others to walk beside us. That is one of the reasons Mighty Caregivers exists. My hope is that people discover they are not alone. My hope is that caregivers realize there are others who understand. My hope is that when life becomes difficult, people feel comfortable reaching out instead of carrying everything by themselves. The truth is that every one of us will face a moment when we need support. And that is okay. God created us for community. He created us to encourage one another, pray for one another, and help one another through difficult seasons. Sometimes we are the helper. Sometimes we are the one being helped. Both are important. So if you are carrying something heavy today, remember this: you do not have to carry it alone. Everyone needs help sometimes. And sometimes allowing others to help is one of the bravest things we can do.
April 14th, 2026 Scripture: Hebrews 6:10 "God is not unjust. He will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people." Devotion: Many acts of care happen quietly and without recognition. God sees every encouraging word, every helping hand, and every sacrifice made on behalf of another person. Even when others do not notice, your care matters. The smallest acts of kindness can make a lasting difference in someone's life. Tip: Take a moment today to thank someone whose care often goes unnoticed. Reminder: The people who quietly care for others deserve encouragement too. On Monday, something simple turned into something meaningful. A few of us from church had the opportunity to deliver homemade cookies to a local nursing home. The cookies were delicious, but what we were really bringing was appreciation. As we walked through the doors, I was reminded of something I have seen throughout my career. Some of the most important people in our communities are often the least recognized. Every day, caregivers quietly show up to care for others. They help people get dressed, provide comfort during difficult moments, offer encouragement, listen to concerns, and make sure basic needs are met. Most of the time, they do this without expecting recognition. As we handed out the cookies, I watched smiles appear on faces that had likely spent the day caring for everyone else. I heard simple words like "thank you" and "this means a lot." The cookies were appreciated, but I think what mattered most was knowing that someone had taken the time to acknowledge them. It made me think about how often caregivers work behind the scenes. Many people never see the early mornings, the long shifts, the patience required, or the emotional energy that caregiving demands. They do not see the small acts of kindness that happen throughout the day. Yet those moments matter. They make a difference in the lives of the people receiving care. One of the lessons I have learned over the years is that everyone needs encouragement, including the people who spend their lives encouraging others. A simple thank you can go a long way. A kind word can brighten someone's day. A small gesture can remind a caregiver that their work is valued. What I love about delivering cookies is that it creates an opportunity to pause and recognize the people who quietly care for others. It is a simple way of saying, "We see you. We appreciate you. What you do matters." As caregivers, we often focus on helping those who are struggling. That is important. But sometimes we also need to encourage the people doing the helping. The truth is that communities are strengthened by people who quietly show up every day and care. My hope is that we become better at noticing them. Because care grows when it is acknowledged. And sometimes the most meaningful gift we can give is simply letting someone know that what they do matters.
April 15th, 2026 Scripture: Galatians 6:2 "Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." Devotion: Care is often found in ordinary places. It happens when people take time to help one another, listen to one another, and serve one another. God works through these everyday moments of compassion. When we choose to care, we become part of something bigger than ourselves. Tip: Pay attention to the people around you today. You may discover acts of care happening in places you least expect. Reminder: Care has a way of multiplying when people come together to help one another. Some of you may not know this, but I work in a residential mental health treatment facility. The people I serve often have very little money, and it can be difficult for them to obtain basic necessities, such as clothing. Recently, I took a group to Edge to visit the clothes closet. I thought we were simply going to pick up some clothes. What I experienced that day was something much greater. Everywhere I looked, I saw people caring for others. The clothes closet was filled with volunteers helping people find what they needed. Down the hall, I saw a preschool class preparing to go outside with a teacher who was calm, patient, and attentive. In the church office, people were busy preparing for the week ahead. Outside, neighbors stopped to talk and check in with one another. Upstairs, families and children were receiving support and care through the Autism center. Everywhere I looked, someone was helping someone else. It was a busy place, but it did not feel rushed. It felt purposeful. As we drove back, one of the residents looked at me and said, "That is a busy place." The more I thought about that comment, the more I realized he was noticing something important. He was not simply talking about activity. He was noticing care. He was seeing people serving, helping, encouraging, teaching, supporting, and connecting with one another. What made the place special was not how busy it was. What made it special was how people were showing up for each other. That day, my residents received clothes they needed. But they received something else too. They experienced what it feels like to be in a place where care is everywhere. I think many of us are looking for places like that. Places where people notice one another. Places where people are willing to help. Places where kindness is normal and compassion is part of everyday life. The truth is that we all have the ability to create those kinds of places. Every time we offer encouragement, lend a helping hand, listen to someone's story, or take time to support another person, we help build a community where care can grow. That resident was right. It was a busy place. But more importantly, it was a caring place. And that is what made all the difference.
April 16th, 2026 Scripture: 1 Peter 4:10 "Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others." Devotion: God has given each of us unique gifts, talents, and experiences. We may not always think they are important, but when we offer them in service to others, they can become a blessing. We do not have to do everything. We simply need to use what God has already placed in our hands. Tip: Think about one talent or skill you enjoy and consider how it might encourage someone else. Reminder: Your gifts matter, and someone may be waiting for exactly what you have to offer. There is something powerful about using what you already have to serve others. Your talents, your skills, and your life experiences are not small. When you offer them to your community, they become something mighty. I want to encourage each of you in the Mighty Caregivers Circle to pause and ask, "What can I offer?" It does not have to be complicated. It simply needs to come from who you are. Recently, our church organist and I had a conversation that really stayed with me. She shared that she was not quite sure how she could help others beyond what she was already doing. As we talked, she mentioned how much she loves playing the piano and organ. Then she remembered something. Years ago, she used to play for residents in a nursing home. As we continued talking, she said something simple but powerful. She would love to do that again. Right now, I am reaching out to local assisted living communities to see if there is an opportunity for her to share her gift with residents once more. What struck me was how naturally the idea emerged. She was not trying to create something complicated. She was not looking for a grand project. She was simply thinking about what she already loved to do. That is what being a Mighty Caregiver often looks like. A song can lift a spirit. A familiar hymn can bring back a treasured memory. A few moments at a piano can reach someone's heart in a way that words cannot. Sometimes the most meaningful acts of care come from offering what we already have. Over the years, I have met caregivers who bake, garden, sing, teach, listen, organize, encourage, build, write, and pray. They all have different gifts, but they share one thing in common. They use those gifts to help other people. The world often tells us that making a difference requires something big. Caregiving teaches us something different. Making a difference often starts with something simple. It starts with asking, "What can I offer?" Today, I invite you to think about your own talents. What do you enjoy? What comes naturally to you? What experiences have shaped your life? Our neighbors do not always need something extraordinary. They need something real. And what you carry may be exactly what someone else is waiting for.
April 17th, 2026 Scripture: Revelation 12:11 "They triumphed by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony." Devotion: Stories have the power to encourage, connect, and inspire. When we share what we have experienced and what we have learned, we remind others that they are not alone. God often uses our stories to bring hope to someone who needs it. Even a simple story can make a lasting difference. Tip: Share a story this week about someone who inspired you through their kindness or care. Reminder: Your story may be the encouragement someone else needs today. One of the things I love most about Mighty Caregivers Circle is that we have the opportunity to share stories. Stories help us see care in action. They help us notice the people who quietly make a difference in the lives of others. They remind us that caregiving is happening all around us, often in ways we might otherwise miss. I see this every time I drive for Uber. People step into the back seat carrying more than luggage. They carry responsibilities, worries, hopes, joys, and challenges. Sometimes a simple conversation begins, and before long, they are sharing pieces of their lives. They talk about aging parents. They talk about children they are raising. They talk about friends they are helping through difficult seasons. They talk about love, responsibility, loss, and hope. What strikes me is how often these conversations reveal caregiving. Many people do not think of themselves as caregivers. Yet when they share their stories, I hear examples of compassion, sacrifice, patience, and support. I hear stories of people showing up for one another every day. Over time, I started sharing some of these experiences through my Backseat Stories. I do this carefully and respectfully. I protect people's privacy. I do not need to share names or personal details to tell a meaningful story. The lesson is what matters. The care is what matters. The hope is what matters. What I have discovered is that stories have a way of inspiring other people. When someone hears about an act of kindness, they often begin to think about the kindness they have experienced or offered themselves. When they hear about caregiving, they begin to recognize the caregivers in their own lives. Stories help us see what was already there. They help people realize they are not alone. One of the most powerful things that happens when we share stories is that people begin to feel connected. They realize that others have faced similar challenges. They discover that other people understand what they are going through. A story can provide encouragement. A story can create understanding. A story can offer hope. Sometimes a person only needs to hear that someone else has walked a similar path and found a way forward. That is why I believe sharing stories matters. Not because we are trying to draw attention to ourselves, but because stories help us shine a light on care. They help us celebrate the people who make a difference. They help us recognize the goodness that exists in our communities. Most importantly, they remind us that none of us walks this journey alone.
April 18th, 2026 Scripture: Colossians 3:12 "Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience." Devotion: Compassion begins when we take the time to notice another person's struggle. It moves us beyond seeing and inspires us to care. God calls us to respond with kindness, patience, and understanding. Small acts of compassion can bring comfort, hope, and encouragement to someone who needs it most. Tip: Take a moment today to ask someone how they are really doing and listen to their answer. Reminder: Compassion often starts with simply noticing. Compassion is one of the most powerful gifts we can offer another person. It does not require special training, a title, or a perfect plan. Compassion begins when we notice someone else's need and choose to respond with kindness. Every day, we encounter people who are carrying burdens we cannot see. A coworker may be struggling with stress. A neighbor may be feeling lonely. A friend may be facing a challenge they have not shared with anyone. The cashier at the grocery store, the person sitting beside us at church, or the stranger we pass on the street may all be carrying something heavy. We rarely know the whole story. That is why compassion matters. Compassion invites us to slow down and see people differently. Instead of rushing past them, we take time to listen. Instead of judging, we seek to understand. Instead of assuming someone is fine, we recognize that they may need encouragement. Over the years, I have learned that compassion is often expressed through small actions. A smile. A kind word. A phone call. A note of encouragement. A willingness to sit with someone who is hurting. These moments may seem ordinary, but they can have an extraordinary impact. One of the things I admire most about caregivers is their ability to show compassion day after day. They continue to care even when they are tired. They continue to listen even when they have their own worries. They continue to show kindness because they understand that every person deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Compassion does not always solve a problem. Sometimes it simply reminds a person that they do not have to face that problem alone. I believe the world needs more compassion. It needs more people willing to notice, listen, encourage, and care. The good news is that compassion is something every one of us can offer. You do not need to change the whole world today. You only need to make a difference for one person. A compassionate heart can brighten a difficult day, ease a burden, and remind someone that they matter. And often, that is exactly what they need.
April 19th, 2026 Scripture: Philippians 2:14 "Do everything without grumbling or arguing." Devotion: It is easy to focus on what is wrong when we are tired, frustrated, or overwhelmed. Yet God invites us to see people through a different lens. Behind many difficult behaviors is a person who is hurting, struggling, or carrying a burden we cannot see. When we choose compassion over complaint, we create space for healing, understanding, and grace. Tip: The next time you find yourself frustrated with someone, pause and ask, "What might this person be going through?" Reminder: People who are hurting often need understanding more than judgment. As caregivers, it is easy to fall into conversations about what is wrong. We talk about difficult situations, challenging behaviors, and frustrating moments. Sometimes we complain because we are tired. Sometimes we grumble because we feel overwhelmed. Sometimes we simply need to let off steam. The truth is that caregiving can be hard. But I wonder what would happen if we reframed the conversation. What if, instead of asking, "What is wrong with this person?" we asked, "What happened to this person?" What if, instead of focusing on the behavior, we focused on the hurt behind it? Over the years, I have worked with seniors, families, caregivers, and individuals receiving mental health services. One thing I have learned is that many difficult behaviors come from pain. People who seem angry may be afraid. People who seem impatient may be overwhelmed. People who seem distant may be lonely. People who seem difficult may be carrying burdens they do not know how to express. A lot of people are hurting. Some are grieving. Some are struggling financially. Some are caring for loved ones while feeling exhausted themselves. Some are dealing with anxiety, depression, illness, or uncertainty about the future. When we remember this, it changes how we respond. Compassion begins to replace frustration. Understanding begins to replace judgment. Grace begins to replace criticism. This does not mean we ignore problems or pretend everything is fine. It means we choose to see the person behind the problem. Jesus did this constantly. He saw beyond the surface. He looked beyond the behavior and saw the heart. He recognized pain where others saw inconvenience. He offered compassion where others offered criticism. As caregivers, we have the opportunity to do the same. Every person we meet is fighting a battle we may know nothing about. That difficult customer, that frustrated family member, that resident who complains, or that coworker who seems short tempered may be carrying more than we realize. When we reframe the conversation, we begin to see people differently. Instead of asking, "Why are they acting this way?" we begin asking, "How can I help?" That simple shift can change everything. The world has enough grumbling. What it needs more of is compassion. Compassion begins when we remember that many of the people around us are hurting and looking for someone who will see them with understanding and grace.
April 20th, 2026 Scripture: Colossians 3:14 "And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony." Devotion: Grace often appears in unexpected places. It shows up when we choose patience over frustration, understanding over correction, and love over convenience. God invites us to meet people where they are, just as He meets us where we are. When we do, grace has room to work in both their lives and ours. Tip: The next time someone tests your patience, pause and try to see the situation from their perspective. Reminder: Grace grows when we choose understanding. Grace often shows up in ways we do not expect. I remember Catherine, a remarkable woman who was 101 years old and living with dementia. As her caregiver, I struggled at first. Whenever I was nearby, she would call out for my attention. It seemed constant. There were days when it felt like I could not take two steps without hearing her call my name. At times, it was frustrating because I was trying to care for many people at once. What I did not understand was what was happening in Catherine's world. It took patience and a willingness to slow down before I began to see it clearly. One day, I realized that in Catherine's mind, I was not simply a caregiver. I was her husband. Everything changed when I understood that. Instead of trying to correct her reality, I stepped into it with her. Rather than telling her she was mistaken, I chose to meet her where she was. Grace met me there. I started sitting with her during meals and spending a little extra time with her throughout the day. I gave her the presence and attention she was asking for. Something remarkable happened. Catherine became calmer. She seemed more at peace. What once felt like an interruption became an opportunity to provide the care she truly needed. To my surprise, caring for her became easier. There were still moments that stretched me. There were days when I felt overwhelmed and unsure of what to do. But Catherine taught me one of the most important lessons of my caregiving career. When we choose patience, grace has room to work. When we enter another person's world instead of forcing them into ours, we begin to understand them differently. We stop seeing them as a problem to solve and start seeing them as a person to love. That lesson extends far beyond dementia care. Every day, we encounter people carrying burdens we cannot see. Some are grieving. Some are afraid. Some are lonely. Some are struggling with circumstances we know nothing about. When we slow down long enough to understand their perspective, compassion begins to replace frustration. Care does not always look efficient. It does not always fit neatly into a schedule. It does not always follow our plans. But when care is rooted in grace, it meets people exactly where they are. Catherine taught me that love is often quieter than we expect. Sometimes it looks like sitting at a table a little longer. Sometimes it looks like listening one more time. Sometimes it looks like entering another person's reality with kindness and patience. That is where grace often lives. Right in the middle of love that chooses to stay present.
April 21th, 2026 Scripture: Ephesians 4:2 "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." Devotion: Patience is one of the greatest gifts we can offer another person. When people are hurting, worried, or frustrated, their patience may wear thin. In those moments, they need someone who can remain calm, steady, and supportive. God shows patience with us every day, and He invites us to extend that same grace to others. Tip: When someone becomes frustrated today, pause before reacting and respond with kindness instead. Reminder: Your patience can provide peace when someone else is struggling. One of the things I have learned about caregiving is that people are not always patient when they are hurting. When someone is worried, afraid, sick, lonely, or overwhelmed, patience can be hard to find. The person who is normally calm may become frustrated. The person who is usually easygoing may become demanding. The person who is waiting for answers may struggle with uncertainty. As caregivers, we sometimes find ourselves on the receiving end of that frustration. I have seen this throughout my career. I have watched residents become impatient while waiting for a meal. I have seen family members become frustrated while trying to navigate difficult situations. I have listened to people who were tired of waiting for answers, tired of waiting for healing, or tired of carrying burdens that seemed to have no end. In those moments, it can be easy to become impatient ourselves. We may want to remind them that we are doing our best. We may want them to see how much effort is being made on their behalf. We may even feel frustrated that our attempts to help are not being appreciated. Over the years, I have learned something important. Often, their impatience is not really about us. It is about what they are carrying. Behind frustration is often fear. Behind anger is often hurt. Behind impatience is often uncertainty. When we remember this, it changes the way we respond. Instead of becoming defensive, we can become understanding. Instead of reacting to the frustration, we can look for the need behind it. Instead of matching their impatience, we can offer calm and reassurance. This does not mean we allow people to treat us poorly. It means we recognize that many people are doing the best they can while carrying burdens we may not fully understand. Some of the most meaningful caregiving happens when we remain patient during another person's difficult moment. A calm voice can ease anxiety. A listening ear can reduce frustration. A reassuring presence can help someone feel safe. Patience has a way of creating space for healing. I think about how patient God has been with me throughout my life. There have been times when I wanted answers immediately. Times when I wanted things to happen on my schedule. Times when I became frustrated because life was not going the way I expected. Yet God remained patient. As caregivers, we have the opportunity to offer that same gift to others. The next time someone seems impatient, try to look beyond the behavior. Ask yourself what they might be feeling. Ask yourself what burden they may be carrying. You may discover that what they need most is not an answer. They may simply need someone who is willing to be patient with them while they find their way through a difficult season.
April 21th, 2026 Scripture: Ephesians 4:2 "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." Devotion: Patience is one of the greatest gifts we can offer another person. When people are hurting, worried, or frustrated, their patience may wear thin. In those moments, they need someone who can remain calm, steady, and supportive. God shows patience with us every day, and He invites us to extend that same grace to others. Tip: When someone becomes frustrated today, pause before reacting and respond with kindness instead. Reminder: Your patience can provide peace when someone else is struggling. One of the things I have learned about caregiving is that people are not always patient when they are hurting. When someone is worried, afraid, sick, lonely, or overwhelmed, patience can be hard to find. The person who is normally calm may become frustrated. The person who is usually easygoing may become demanding. The person who is waiting for answers may struggle with uncertainty. As caregivers, we sometimes find ourselves on the receiving end of that frustration. I have seen this throughout my career. I have watched residents become impatient while waiting for a meal. I have seen family members become frustrated while trying to navigate difficult situations. I have listened to people who were tired of waiting for answers, tired of waiting for healing, or tired of carrying burdens that seemed to have no end. In those moments, it can be easy to become impatient ourselves. We may want to remind them that we are doing our best. We may want them to see how much effort is being made on their behalf. We may even feel frustrated that our attempts to help are not being appreciated. Over the years, I have learned something important. Often, their impatience is not really about us. It is about what they are carrying. Behind frustration is often fear. Behind anger is often hurt. Behind impatience is often uncertainty. When we remember this, it changes the way we respond. Instead of becoming defensive, we can become understanding. Instead of reacting to the frustration, we can look for the need behind it. Instead of matching their impatience, we can offer calm and reassurance. This does not mean we allow people to treat us poorly. It means we recognize that many people are doing the best they can while carrying burdens we may not fully understand. Some of the most meaningful caregiving happens when we remain patient during another person's difficult moment. A calm voice can ease anxiety. A listening ear can reduce frustration. A reassuring presence can help someone feel safe. Patience has a way of creating space for healing. I think about how patient God has been with me throughout my life. There have been times when I wanted answers immediately. Times when I wanted things to happen on my schedule. Times when I became frustrated because life was not going the way I expected. Yet God remained patient. As caregivers, we have the opportunity to offer that same gift to others. The next time someone seems impatient, try to look beyond the behavior. Ask yourself what they might be feeling. Ask yourself what burden they may be carrying. You may discover that what they need most is not an answer. They may simply need someone who is willing to be patient with them while they find their way through a difficult season.
April 22nd, 2026 Title: The Gift of Patience Hello Mighty Caregivers, Scripture: Romans 12:12 "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer." Devotion: Patience is a powerful form of care. I have seen this over time in working with people. Growth does not happen all at once. Healing is rarely instant. Change takes time. There have been moments in my work and in my personal life when I wanted to push things forward. I wanted someone to make a decision, develop a new habit, accept help, or see what I could already see. But I have learned that people need space to process and move at their own pace. I have stayed with situations where progress felt painfully slow. I have worked with residents learning new coping skills, families navigating difficult decisions, and people trying to rebuild their lives after setbacks. There were days when it seemed like nothing was changing at all. Then, over time, something shifted. A small breakthrough happened. A new perspective emerged. Someone took a step they had been afraid to take before. Not because they were pressured, but because there had been consistency, support, and patience. That kind of steady presence builds trust. Patience does not mean we stop hoping. It does not mean we lower our expectations or give up on people. Patience means believing that growth is still possible, even when we cannot yet see it. It means staying present long enough for grace to do its work. As caregivers, we often want to help people move beyond their pain as quickly as possible. We want solutions. We want healing. We want to make things better. Yet some of the most meaningful care we can offer is simply remaining beside someone while they find their footing. We become a calm presence in the middle of uncertainty. We remind people that they are not alone. I think God is patient with us in much the same way. God does not rush our growth. God stays with us through our questions, struggles, setbacks, and fears. God's grace gives us time to learn, heal, and become who we are meant to be. Grace gives time. And in that time, people begin to feel safe.
May 1st , 2026 What if we lived more intentionally by planting seeds with one mission in mind: creating spaces where people can step into caring for people? A seed can be small. A kind word. A simple invitation. A meal. A ride. A prayer. A conversation. But when planted with purpose, that seed can grow into something much bigger than we imagine. Every time we create a space where someone feels seen, supported, or invited to help, we are planting. We are building a world where care becomes easier to step into. Imagine neighborhoods, churches, workplaces, and communities where the mission is simple: make room for care. Not everyone knows how to help right away. Sometimes people just need permission and direction. They need someone to plant the first seed and show them that caring is not about perfection. It is about presence. When we intentionally plant seeds of care, we are not just helping one person. We are creating places where compassion can grow for generations. So today, ask yourself: What seed can I plant? What space can I help create so others can step in too? Your small act of care may become someone else’s place of hope.
May 2nd , 2026 Growing up as the child of co-pastors, my parents taught me something powerful. Sometimes real change happens quietly in the background. They showed me that meaningful work does not always come with recognition. Sometimes you plant seeds, help build something good, and then watch others receive the credit. That can hurt. But they also taught me to surrender that hurt to God. This week, we have been talking about planting seeds. I have shared how ministries and shared spaces have been planted at Edge UMC, but what I have not fully told you is that many of these seeds were quietly planted while I faithfully stood back and watched others lead, water, and help them grow. There is something powerful about knowing you helped start something meaningful and then choosing quiet faithfulness over recognition. I love seeing the action, compassion, and community support growing at Edge. We are helping so many people, and that matters far more than applause. I want to continue planting seeds at Edge UMC for the Kingdom of God in Groveland, Florida. I am preparing myself to quietly bring Mighty Caregivers into spaces wherever people can step into care. My heart is to keep planting, keep serving, and keep building spaces where God’s love can grow through people willing to care. God’s plan is bigger than titles, applause, or recognition. Sometimes our role is simply to serve, build, and trust that what God begins through us still matters. Take comfort in this: you do not always need credit to know you made a difference. Sometimes the greatest impact comes through quiet faithfulness. Next week, we will begin focusing on what it means to serve people for the Kingdom of God. I am looking forward to sharing this journey with you, and I hope it inspires you to keep planting seeds right where you are.
May 3rd, 2026 Yesterday, I was on the phone with my friend Christine, one of the Mighty Caregivers right here in our midst of people who care in this Circle. We were simply talking when she started mumbling about how much gas cost. I had no idea she was pulling into a gas station. In the middle of our conversation, she suddenly stepped away, but the phone was still on. What happened next felt powerful. I could hear the entire moment unfold as Christine noticed someone nearby who needed help at the gas pump. Without hesitation, this Mighty Caregiver stepped in with compassion and love to help another person use their card at the pump. I listened quietly as someone from our own Circle moved into care in real time. In that moment, I felt God’s presence. This was not a planned ministry moment. There was no spotlight. No audience. Just Christine noticing someone in need and choosing to serve. Afterward, Christine explained that the woman she helped had a medical issue and was unable to step out of the car and just needed help to put her card into the pump to pay for gas. Think about that. A simple stop for gas became Kingdom work. This is what the Mighty Kingdom looks like. It is built through people like Christine, and through each of us, in everyday places through everyday moments. At a gas station. In a parking lot. During an ordinary phone call. God’s Kingdom often grows through simple acts of care. Christine reminded me that Mighty Caregivers are already among us. Right here in this Circle, there are people quietly serving, noticing, and stepping in when others need help. Serving people with care is not always loud. Sometimes it sounds like compassion at pump number three. Mighty Caregivers, never underestimate how God can use an ordinary moment to do extraordinary Kingdom work. This week, stay aware. Someone near you may need kindness, compassion, or simple help. And maybe, like Christine, you are already exactly where God needs you to be. Scripture: “Let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.” 1 John 3:18 The Mighty Kingdom grows when care becomes action.
May 4th, 2026 This was spoken at church yesterday, and it has been sitting with me ever since. Matthew 28:16–20, where Jesus meets His disciples after the resurrection. They gathered, some full of faith and some still unsure, and Jesus spoke something powerful into that moment. He said that all authority in heaven and on earth has been given to Him, and then He gave them direction to go. Not to wait, not to wonder if they were ready, not to figure everything out first, but simply to go. As I was thinking about this, I was taken back to a moment during Covid when I was working as an Activity Director in an assisted living community in Pennsylvania. Everything had changed. The routines were gone. The connection was gone. The residents were isolated, and I could feel the weight of it every day. I knew I had to find new ways to engage people. I had to get going. There was no choice in that moment. I was scared. I did not have a perfect plan. I did not know if anything would work, but I kept going, not just because I had to, but because I wanted to. The residents needed something. They needed connection again. One day, we started talking as a team. The residents kept saying how much they missed bingo. It was more than a game. It was joy. It was community. So we decided to try something new. We called it hall bingo. Each of us took an hour and went down the hallways, inviting residents to sit in their doorways. We kept distance, we stayed safe, and we played bingo right there in the halls. It was simple. It was not perfect, but it worked. You could feel the shift. Laughter came back. Smiles returned. People felt seen again. Looking back now, I realize that was a “go” moment. We did not wait for permission. We did not wait for perfect conditions. We just went. This is what Jesus was talking about. He gives us the authority to step into moments like that, not because we have everything figured out, but because we are willing. When you step into care, you are going. When you create something out of nothing to help someone, you are going. When you push through fear to bring connection to others, you are going. And the promise still stands that He is with us always. So today, do not overthink it. Just go with kindness, go with compassion, and go with a willing heart. You never know what simple idea, like hall bingo, could become a moment that brings life back to someone.
May 5th, 2026 There is something powerful that happens when we slow down and truly listen. Not just to people, but to the quiet movement of the Kingdom of God all around us. So often, care is not loud or announced. It shows up in small moments, soft nudges, and simple opportunities to step in. You may or may not know this about me, but I live with about 60 percent hearing loss in both ears. I wear hearing aids in both ears, and every day I have to practice intentional hearing. If I do not, I simply cannot hear well. But it is more than just listening. I have learned to watch faces, read lips, and pay close attention to expressions. In many ways, I listen with my eyes. Sometimes I need to move a conversation to a quieter space just so I can fully hear someone. I also make it a point to tell people when I first meet them that I truly want to hear them. I let them know about my hearing loss and ask them to let me know if it seems like I missed something. What I have found is that this honesty builds a strong bond. People feel seen, and I feel connected. Do I miss parts of conversations? Yes. Do I want to miss them? No. That is why I stay intentional. I am always looking for ways to listen better, because listening is how I serve. And this has taught me something deeper about the Kingdom of God. Listening is not passive. It is active. It is intentional. It takes effort. It asks us to slow down, to adjust, and to truly notice what is in front of us. The Kingdom of God is often found in those very moments. In the pause. In the quiet nudge. In the choice to lean in instead of move on. What if we all listened like that? What if we paid attention not just with our ears, but with our eyes, our presence, and our hearts? As caregivers, we are already positioned to notice. The invitation is to be intentional with it. To listen for the needs that are not always spoken. To respond to the small moments that others might miss. Today, take a moment to listen with intention. There is care waiting to be given. And there is a place for you to step in.
May 6th, 2026 The Kingdom of God often shows up in simple moments. It is not always loud or planned. It is found when someone pauses to notice, when someone chooses to care, and when someone creates space for others to step in and help. This is how the Kingdom grows. It grows through people who are willing to provide opportunities for care. I remember being in 7th grade and wanting to be part of the choir at church. I went to visit the choir director, Marjorie. She sat next to me at the piano and asked me to sing from the hymnal. My favorite song was “We Will Break Bread Together,” and I was ready. I gave it my best. When the song ended, she looked at me and gently said, “Jeremy, we also have the bell choir.” It turns out I could not carry a tune, and singing was not my strength. But that moment was not a rejection. It was an invitation. I joined the bell choir, and it became something I loved for years. It was an opportunity I was not expecting. Looking back, it gave me a whole new appreciation for music. I was still making music for the Kingdom of God, just in a different way. Every time we played on Sundays or at special events, I was part of something meaningful. Sometimes providing opportunities looks just like what Marjorie did. She saw where I could fit. She created a path instead of closing a door. That is what we get to do as Mighty Caregivers. We notice, we guide, and we create spaces where people can step in and be part of something bigger. You may not realize it, but when you offer an opportunity for someone to care, to serve, or to belong, you are helping build the Kingdom of God. You are helping someone find their place.
June 1st, 2026 Scripture: 1 Corinthians 6:19 "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit?" Devotion: God created our bodies with purpose. He designed us to live, work, serve, and move. Taking care of our physical health is one way we honor the gift God has given us. Small steps taken consistently can lead to meaningful change. When we care for our bodies, we are better prepared to care for others. Tip: Take a short walk today, even if it is only for a few minutes. Reminder: Every step forward is a step toward better health. Over the last year, God has been teaching me an important lesson about movement. For many years, I spent my time helping other people care for themselves. I encouraged residents to exercise. I led activities. I talked about healthy habits. Yet somewhere along the way, I realized I was not always following my own advice. Like many caregivers, I became busy caring for others. There was always another task to complete, another responsibility to manage, and another person who needed support. At the end of the day, I often felt too tired to focus on my own health. Then something began to change. I started thinking about how God designed our bodies. When I look at Scripture, I see people walking from place to place, working with their hands, traveling, serving, and living active lives. God created us to move. Our bodies were never meant to spend all day sitting still. I decided to make movement a personal goal. Not because I wanted to win a race or become an athlete. I simply wanted to take better care of the body God had given me. What surprised me was how much better I felt when I started moving more. My energy improved. My mood improved. My outlook improved. Even on days when I did not feel like walking, I usually felt better after I did. I learned that movement does not have to be complicated. It does not require expensive equipment or a perfect plan. Sometimes it starts with a simple walk around the neighborhood. Sometimes it is stretching in the morning. Sometimes it is choosing to take a few extra steps throughout the day. The hardest part is often getting started. As caregivers, we sometimes place our own needs at the bottom of the list. We tell ourselves we will take care of ourselves later. The problem is that later often never comes. God calls us to care for others, but He also calls us to be good stewards of the bodies He has entrusted to us. That is one of the reasons I started becoming more intentional about movement. I realized that caring for myself was not selfish. It was necessary. The healthier I am, the more energy I have to serve others. The stronger I become, the more prepared I am for the work God has placed before me. Today, I want to encourage you to take one small step. You do not have to change everything at once. Just move. Take a walk. Stretch. Stand up and take a few extra steps. Start where you are. God created your body with purpose. Honor that gift by taking care of it. You may discover, just as I did, that those small steps can lead to big changes.
June 2nd, 2026 Scripture: Romans 12:15 "Rejoice with those who rejoice, mourn with those who mourn." Devotion: One of the greatest gifts we can give another person is our presence. We do not always have the power to fix what is wrong or change difficult circumstances. But we can choose to walk beside someone, listen to their concerns, and help carry their burden. Often, caring begins when we simply enter into another person's experience with compassion and understanding. Tip: Take time today to truly listen to someone without trying to solve their problem. Reminder: Your presence can be more powerful than your solutions. The summer of 1988 felt like it was supposed to be my summer. I was a Little League baseball player in Indiana, and I loved the game. I loved putting on the uniform, taking the field, and counting down the days until the next game. But that year, the weather had other plans. Indiana was experiencing a drought. The heat seemed endless. The grass turned brown, the ground became hard, and one by one our games disappeared from the schedule. Out of ten games, six were canceled. As a kid, that felt devastating. Every canceled game felt like something had been taken away. I remember being disappointed and frustrated because all I wanted to do was play baseball. My dad noticed. He did not tell me to get over it. He did not remind me that there were bigger problems in the world. He understood how much baseball meant to me. One day, he decided to take me to see the Cincinnati Reds play. Suddenly, I was not thinking about canceled Little League games anymore. I was sitting in a major league ballpark watching players I had only seen on television. At one point, after a couple of wild pitches, the benches cleared and excitement filled the stadium. To a young baseball fan, it was unforgettable. I left that game feeling better than I had in weeks. Then came the next season. This time it was not drought. It was rain. Five of our ten games were rained out, and there was not enough time to make them up. Once again, a season I had been looking forward to seemed to slip away. My dad understood my disappointment all over again. This time, he took me to Chicago to see the Cubs play. I had never seen so much baseball in my life. The game stretched into extra innings. Then came a rain delay. Then more baseball. Twelve innings in all. It felt like the longest game ever played, and I loved every minute of it. Looking back, what stands out is not the drought, the rain, or even the major league games. What I remember most is that my dad saw my disappointment and stepped into it with me. He did not fix the weather. He could not give me those Little League games back. What he gave me was something better. He gave me his time, his understanding, and his presence. Caregivers do this every day. They cannot always change the circumstances. They cannot always remove the disappointment, the diagnosis, the setback, or the loss. But they can sit beside someone, understand what they are feeling, and help them find a little joy in the middle of it. Sometimes caring is not about solving the problem. Sometimes it is about taking someone to a ballgame.
June 3rd, 2026 Scripture: Romans 15:7 "Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you." Devotion: One of the greatest gifts we can offer another person is acceptance. When people feel welcomed, valued, and included, they begin to believe they belong. God accepts us as we are and continues to shape us through His love. As caregivers, we have the opportunity to create places where others feel seen, heard, and accepted. Tip: Take time today to welcome someone who may feel overlooked or alone. Reminder: A spirit of acceptance can change a life. Growing up as a preacher's kid, I spent a lot of time in church. Some people hear that and assume it must have been difficult. While there were certainly challenges that came with being the pastor's son, one thing stands out when I look back on those years. I always felt accepted. The church became more than a place we attended on Sundays. It became a community of people who helped shape my life. As a child with a significant hearing loss, there were many moments when I felt different from other kids. There were things I struggled with that most people never had to think about. Yet when I walked through the doors of church, I rarely felt defined by those challenges. Instead, I felt welcomed. The people in those congregations saw me as Jeremy. They did not focus on what I could not do. They focused on who I was. They encouraged me, talked with me, included me, and made me feel like I belonged. Looking back, I realize what a gift that was. Not everyone grows up feeling accepted. Many people spend years wondering if they fit in or if they truly belong. They carry doubts about whether others see them, value them, or understand them. The churches I grew up in gave me something different. They gave me a place where I felt connected. They gave me relationships with people of all ages. They gave me examples of kindness, encouragement, and service. I think those experiences helped shape the person I became. They taught me the importance of creating spaces where people feel welcomed. They taught me that acceptance is not about agreeing on everything. It is about recognizing the value and worth of another person. As I look at Mighty Caregivers today, I realize that is one of my hopes for this community. I want people to feel accepted. I want them to know they belong. I want them to know that their story matters and that they do not have to walk through life alone. Caregivers understand the power of acceptance. Sometimes people simply need someone to sit beside them and say, "You belong here." They need to know they are valued, not because of what they can do, but because of who they are. I am grateful for the people who created that experience for me growing up. They may not have realized the impact they were having, but their acceptance helped build confidence, connection, and a sense of belonging that has stayed with me throughout my life. The truth is that every one of us has the opportunity to offer that same gift to someone else. A smile. A welcome. A conversation. An invitation. Small acts of acceptance can help people feel at home. And sometimes that is exactly what they need.
June 4th, 2026 Scripture: Romans 15:13 "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him." Devotion: Hope can be a quiet thing. It does not always arrive with big answers or dramatic changes. Sometimes hope shows up in the small moments that remind us to keep going. A phone call from a friend. A good night's sleep after several difficult ones. A smile from someone who understands. A prayer whispered in the middle of a hard day. Over the years, I have met many caregivers who kept moving forward not because they had all the strength they needed, but because they held on to hope. They hoped for a better day. They hoped for healing. They hoped for wisdom. They hoped that what they were doing mattered. One of the things I have learned is that hope is not pretending everything is okay. Hope is believing that God is still at work even when we cannot see the whole picture. Tip: Look for one sign of hope today, no matter how small it may seem. Reminder: God is still at work, even when you cannot see the whole picture. About a year ago, I realized something needed to change in my life. For a long time, I had spent my energy caring for other people. That was not new for me. I had built my career around helping caregivers, seniors, families, and people facing difficult challenges. Caring for others was something I understood well. What I was not doing very well was caring for myself. I found myself carrying stress, feeling stuck in old routines, and knowing deep down that I needed to become more intentional about my own well being. The problem was that I did not have a perfect plan. I did not know exactly what the next year would look like. I just knew I needed to take a step. Looking back, hope was what helped me begin. It was not a dramatic moment. There was no instant transformation. Instead, hope showed up in small ways. It showed up through people who encouraged me. It showed up through conversations that challenged me to grow. It showed up through opportunities to improve my physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health. One small step led to another. I started walking more. I became more intentional about spending time with people who encouraged me. I began creating space for God to work in areas of my life that I had neglected. Slowly, things began to change. The interesting thing is that hope often works that way. It does not always give us the entire path. Sometimes it simply gives us enough light to take the next step. As I look back over the past year, I can see God's hand in places where I could not see it at the time. He was working through friendships, opportunities, conversations, and moments that seemed small at first. Those small moments became part of a much larger story. Caregivers understand this better than most people. There are days when the road feels long and the answers are unclear. There are moments when progress feels slow. Yet hope reminds us that today's struggle is not the end of the story. My journey over the past year has taught me that hope is not something we create on our own. It is something we receive from God. As we trust Him, He gives us the strength we need for today and the courage we need for tomorrow. And sometimes, that is all we need. One more step. One more day. One more reason to keep moving forward.
June 5th, 2026 Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9 "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor." Devotion: God did not create us to walk through life alone. He often provides strength, encouragement, and wisdom through the people He places around us. When we allow others to support us, we discover that receiving care can be just as important as giving it. Healthy relationships remind us that we are loved, valued, and never alone on the journey. Tip: Reach out to someone who encourages you and let them know how much they mean to you. Reminder: Caregivers need caregivers too. Over the past ten months, I have gone through a personal life transition. As I look back, I can see how much has changed. While I am grateful for the weight I have lost, the greatest transformation has happened emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. For many years, I worked as an Activity Director in senior living communities. I loved the people I served, and I was passionate about helping residents live meaningful lives. The work was rewarding, but it could also be demanding. The days were long. The responsibilities were heavy. There was always another event to plan, another family to support, and another need to meet. In senior living, Activity Directors are often expected to work Sundays because that is when families visit. Communities want to feel active and welcoming. As a result, many weekends were spent caring for others instead of resting and recharging myself. Looking back, I can see that while I was helping others, I was not always taking very good care of myself. I was generally happy, but I do not think I experienced the kind of peace and balance that I do today. Somewhere along the way, I had fallen into a pattern that many caregivers know well. I spent so much time caring for others that I forgot to care for myself. One of the biggest changes over the past ten months has been intentionally surrounding myself with people who care about me. I have learned that caregivers need caregivers too. None of us is meant to carry every burden alone. God has placed some incredible people in my life. People who encourage me. People who listen. People who challenge me to grow. People who remind me to be kind to myself. Their support has helped me see that receiving care is not a weakness. It is part of how God designed us to live. I have also become intentional about using resources that bring calm and peace into my life. Daily reflection, exercise, prayer, meaningful friendships, and healthier routines have become important parts of my journey. These practices have helped me slow down, focus on what matters most, and create space for God to work in my life. One thing I did not expect was how much writing would become part of my self care. Sitting down to write these Mighty Caregivers Circle stories has become a way for me to reflect on where I have been and where God is leading me. Writing helps me recognize the people who have helped me along the way. It reminds me of lessons I do not want to forget. It also gives me an opportunity to pass that care on to others. As I look back on the past ten months, I am grateful for the progress I have made. More importantly, I am grateful for the people who have walked beside me. They have reminded me that caregivers are not meant to carry the weight of the world by themselves. If there is one lesson I hope you take from this story, it is this. Caring for yourself is not selfish. It is necessary. The better we care for ourselves, the better we are able to care for others. And sometimes the most important thing a caregiver can do is allow someone else to care for them.
June 6th, 2026 Scripture: Galatians 6:2 "Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." Devotion: God never intended for us to walk through life alone. He created us for community, encouragement, and connection. Some of the greatest gifts we receive come through the people He places in our lives. When we support one another, listen to one another, and walk alongside one another, we become part of God's care for His people. Tip: Reach out to someone today who has encouraged you and thank them. Reminder: We are stronger when we walk together. When we hear the words self care, we often think about things we can do by ourselves. We think about taking a walk, getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, spending time in prayer, or taking a few moments to rest. Those things matter, but over the past year, I have discovered something else. Many of the ways I care for myself involve other people. I am grateful for the Mighty Caregivers in my life. They encourage me, listen to me, pray with me, challenge me, walk alongside me, and remind me that I matter too. They have taught me that self care is not always something we do alone. Sometimes it is something we experience through relationships. In fact, all of you who receive the Mighty Caregivers Circle are Mighty Caregivers. Many people do not see themselves that way. They might say, "I am not a caregiver. I do not work in healthcare. I do not take care of a family member." But caregiving comes in many forms. Sometimes it is sending an encouraging text message. Sometimes it is listening to a friend who needs someone to talk to. Sometimes it is inviting someone to join a group, sharing a resource, praying for someone, or simply showing up when they need support. You may not think of yourself as a caregiver, but if you help another person feel seen, supported, encouraged, or cared for, you are caring for them. Years ago, one of my mentors was a nurse named Leo. Nurse Leo taught me that caring for people is often found in the small things. He had a way of making people feel comfortable and respected. He took time to listen. He noticed when someone was struggling. He understood that caring was not always about solving problems. Sometimes it was simply about being present. As I watched him work, I realized that people do not always remember exactly what we say or do. They remember how we made them feel. Leo cared for people every day, but he also taught me something important about myself. The people who care for others need care too. That lesson has stayed with me for many years. Today, when I look around, I see Mighty Caregivers everywhere. I see them in my morning groups. I see them in my friends. I see them in organizations that serve others. I see them in the people who read these reflections and encourage others with kindness. Over the past year, I have learned that self care is not just about exercise, prayer, healthy habits, or rest. It is also about relationships. It is about surrounding ourselves with people who encourage us, support us, and remind us that we do not have to carry every burden alone. We do not care for ourselves by ourselves. We need people who walk beside us. Thank you for being one of those people. You may not realize it, but your kindness, encouragement, prayers, and support help others care for themselves too. And that is what Mighty Caregivers is all about.
June 7th, 2026 Scripture: Jeremiah 18:6 "Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand." Devotion: Life does not always follow the path we expect. There are times when plans change, doors close, and we find ourselves being reshaped by circumstances beyond our control. Yet God never wastes our experiences. Just as a potter continues working with clay, God continues working in our lives. Even when we cannot see what He is creating, we can trust that His hands are still at work. Tip: Take a moment today to reflect on a challenge that helped shape you into who you are today. Reminder: God is still working on your story. This week's scripture at my church comes from Jeremiah 18:1-6, where God sends Jeremiah to watch a potter at work. As the potter shapes the clay, the vessel becomes spoiled in his hands. Instead of throwing it away, the potter reshapes it into something new. I love this image because it reminds me that life does not always go according to plan. As caregivers, we often find ourselves caring for others through difficult seasons while also carrying our own struggles, disappointments, and uncertainties. Sometimes we may even feel a little broken ourselves. Yet God does not give up on us. Just as the potter continues to work with the clay, God continues to shape our lives. The difficult moments we experience are not the end of the story. God is still working, still molding, and still creating something beautiful from our experiences. I have spent a considerable amount of time trying to figure out how to help those who care. Around October 2016, my grandmother was battling dementia, and my parents were struggling to engage with her. One day, they asked me, "Where do you get this stuff you engage your residents with?" At the time, I was working as an Activity Director in a memory care community. That simple question changed something in me. It hit me that many caregivers did not know where to find ideas, resources, and support. On October 16, 2016, I wrote my first Facebook post for Engaging Dementia. I remember writing, "This is Engaging Dementia, and I hope it will help people." From there, I started sharing ideas and encouragement for caregivers. The journey was not nearly as simple as I thought it would be. Over the years, I explored different ideas, projects, and directions. Sometimes I would become excited about a new opportunity and pour myself into it. Other times I became discouraged when things did not develop the way I expected. There were seasons when I stepped away and seasons when I returned. More than once, I wondered if I was on the right path. Looking back now, I can see something I could not see then. God was shaping me the entire time. The frustration, the uncertainty, the starts and stops, and even the moments when I felt lost were all part of the process. Like clay in the hands of the potter, I was being reshaped. Recently, Mighty Caregivers has started to make sense to me in a way it never had before. I have realized that helping caregivers is not about finding one perfect idea. It is about consistency. Writing these stories takes consistency. Building relationships takes consistency. Caring for ourselves so we can care for others takes consistency. The lesson was never about creating something perfect. The lesson was about continuing to show up. In many ways, my story is a lot like the clay Jeremiah watched in the potter's hands. There were moments when I felt redirected, reshaped, and started over. There were times when I questioned the process. Yet God never gave up on me. The Potter kept working. Today, I feel like I have found part of my calling. God has shown me a way to encourage caregivers, connect people, and remind us that we are not alone. The path was not always straight, but every step helped shape the person I am becoming. If you are facing a challenge today, remember that the Potter is not finished with you. God sees your value, your purpose, and your potential. Even when life feels messy, He is still working. And sometimes the very thing that feels like a setback today becomes part of the beautiful story God is creating tomorrow.
June 8th, 2026 One of the greatest gifts we can give to the people we care for is joy and laughter. Looking back after more than 25 years of working with seniors, families, and caregivers, I realize that many of my favorite memories involve laughter. As an Activity Director, I carried countless stories in my pocket. Many of them were stories I shared over and over again in groups I led. Sometimes I felt like an actor standing on a stage. Other times, I felt like a comedian trying to get a laugh from the audience. The stories were always true, and I practiced telling them many times. At the time, I thought I was entertaining people. Looking back, I now understand that I was doing something much more important. I was bringing joy to the people I served. One of my favorite stories was about a class I took in college called American Humor. It was only a one-credit course, but one of our assignments was to create an original joke. I proudly earned an A with this joke: “Why did the chicken cross the playground? To get to the other slide.” Simple. Silly. Predictable. And yet that joke brought smiles to countless seniors over the years. Every time I shared it, I could see people relax, laugh, and enjoy the moment. Another favorite story was about how I know for certain that I cannot dance. My sister is a talented dancer who even graduated from Juilliard. One summer, she came home and tried her best to teach me how to dance. During my groups, I would act out just how terrible I was and how unsuccessful her efforts were. Of course, the story always included music and a dramatic demonstration of my lack of rhythm. The residents loved it. The families laughed. The staff laughed. And for a few moments, everyone shared joy and laughter. As caregivers, we often focus on helping people with their needs, challenges, and struggles. Those things matter. But joy matters too. A story, a laugh, a memory, or a shared moment can brighten someone’s day more than we realize. I think that’s one reason stories with humor are so powerful. They connect us. They remind us that life is not just about getting through the day. It’s also about finding moments that make us smile along the way. Today, I encourage you to share a story. Tell a joke. Laugh with someone. Bring a little joy to the people around you. You may never know how much that moment means to them.
June 9th, 2026 Scripture: Joshua 1:9 "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid. Do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." Devotion: Courage does not require having all the answers. Often, courage begins with taking one small step toward helping someone else. God calls ordinary people to make an extraordinary difference through simple acts of kindness, compassion, and service. When we choose to care, even when we are unsure of the outcome, God can use our willingness to create something meaningful. Tip: Look for one opportunity today to help someone, even if you are not completely sure what to do. Reminder: A small act of courage can make a big difference in someone's life. What if, for just one day, we intentionally decided to lead courageously? Not because we have all the answers or know exactly what to do, but because we choose to care. Many of us assume that leadership belongs to people with titles, positions, or special training. But some of the most meaningful leadership happens in everyday moments when someone notices a need and decides to do something about it. I was reminded of this while shopping at Publix one day. As I walked through the store, I noticed an employee helping an older woman fill her grocery cart. The two seemed comfortable together, almost like old friends. Curious about their story, I asked the employee how this arrangement had started. She explained that the woman had come into the store needing help with her shopping. The employee wanted to help but was not exactly sure what to do. Instead of walking away from the situation, she went to her supervisor and asked if there was a way they could support this customer. Together, they came up with a plan. Now, the woman comes into the store on Wednesdays, and they shop together. What struck me most was when the employee told me, "At first, I did not know exactly what to do." I think many of us can relate to that feeling. We often believe we need to have a perfect plan before we act. We want to know the outcome before we take the first step. Yet courageous leadership rarely works that way. More often, it begins with simply caring enough to start. The employee did not have all the answers. She just saw someone who needed help and chose to do something about it. As I talk to people about Mighty Caregivers, I often hear them say, "I am not a caregiver." Then they begin sharing their stories. They tell me about checking on an elderly neighbor, helping a friend through a difficult season, encouraging a coworker who is struggling, volunteering at church, supporting a family member, or simply being there when someone needs a listening ear. As I listen, I cannot help but smile because what they are describing is caregiving. It may not look like a professional caregiver's role, but it is still caring for another person. I think many people underestimate the impact they have on those around them. They do not see themselves as leaders because they are not standing in front of a crowd. They do not see themselves as caregivers because they are not working in healthcare. But leadership and caregiving often happen in small moments that never make headlines. They happen when we choose kindness over convenience. They happen when we notice someone who needs encouragement. They happen when we step forward, even though we are not completely sure what to do. The Publix employee probably did not wake up one morning thinking she was going to become part of someone's support system. She saw a need and responded with compassion. That small act of courage created something meaningful for another person. It reminds me that courageous leadership is not about being fearless. It is about being willing to care enough to take the first step, even when the path is not completely clear. That is why I want to encourage you today. You may not think of yourself as a caregiver. You may not think of yourself as a leader. But if you are helping, encouraging, supporting, listening, serving, or showing kindness to another person, you are already doing both. You are a Mighty Caregiver. You have opportunities every day to make a difference in someone's life through simple acts of compassion. Imagine what our families, workplaces, churches, and communities would look like if each of us intentionally chose to lead courageously for one day. Imagine if we looked for opportunities to help instead of reasons to walk away. Imagine if we cared first and figured out the details later. I believe we would discover that many of the people around us are already leading in powerful ways. They just do not realize it yet. My hope is that Mighty Caregivers helps people recognize the important role they already play in the lives of others. You do not need a title. You do not need special qualifications. You simply need a heart that is willing to care and the courage to take the first step.
June 10th, 2026 Scripture: 1 Corinthians 16:14 "Do everything in love." Devotion: Love is more than a feeling. It is a choice we make every day. Sometimes love looks like encouragement. Sometimes it looks like patience. Sometimes it looks like showing up again and again when progress is slow. When we choose to love others through difficult moments, we reflect God's love in a powerful way. The seeds we plant today may grow into blessings we cannot yet see. Tip: Encourage someone today who may need a reminder that they can keep going. Reminder: Your patience and kindness may be changing a life more than you realize. When I think about what it means to love boldly, my mind immediately goes back to my childhood and a speech therapist named Mrs. Harmon. Long before I became a social worker, activity director, or someone who spends his days encouraging caregivers, I was a young boy trying to find my way in a world that often felt difficult to hear and understand. I was born with significant hearing loss, and as a child, that affected many parts of my life. Communication did not come easily to me. I struggled with speech, and there were sounds and words that I simply could not hear the way other children could. As a result, I required additional support in school. While other children were moving through their day without giving much thought to how they listened or spoke, I was working hard to keep up. It was frustrating at times. There were moments when I felt different, moments when I wanted to quit, and moments when I did not understand why learning had to be so difficult. That is when Mrs. Harmon entered my life. She became much more than a speech therapist in my school. She became someone who saw potential in me when I could not always see it in myself. From first grade through fifth grade, she worked with me consistently and patiently. Looking back now, I realize that what she gave me was much more than speech instruction. She gave me the gift of believing that I could do hard things. I was not always the easiest student. I was stubborn. I became frustrated when things did not come naturally. Learning speech patterns and practicing sounds required repetition and patience, two things that were often in short supply for a young boy who wanted to be anywhere else. Reading lips was especially challenging for me. It required concentration, practice, and a willingness to keep trying when I would rather have been doing something else. Many days, it felt uncomfortable, uncertain, inconvenient, and unfair. What amazes me today is that Mrs. Harmon never gave up. She could have become discouraged. She could have decided that my progress was too slow. She could have moved on and focused her energy elsewhere. Instead, she chose to stay committed. She continued showing up. She continued encouraging me. She continued finding new ways to teach me and help me succeed. Even when I was resistant, she remained patient. Even when I was frustrated, she remained hopeful. Even when I wanted to quit, she continued believing that I could learn. That is what loving boldly looks like. Loving boldly is having the courage to invest in someone even when the outcome is uncertain. It is choosing patience when progress is slow. It is seeing possibilities where others might only see challenges. It is refusing to give up on someone simply because the journey is difficult. Mrs. Harmon did not just care about me. She acted on that care. Day after day, year after year, she put her compassion into action. She demonstrated that love is not simply something we feel. Love is something we do. As I reflect on her influence, I realize that many of the things I can do today are connected to the investment she made in my life. The communication skills I use every day, the confidence I developed, and even my ability to connect with people through stories all have roots in those early years when someone cared enough to help me find my voice. At the time, I probably did not fully appreciate what she was doing. Children rarely see the full impact of those who are helping them. But now, with the perspective that comes from time and experience, I can clearly see the gift she gave me. I also think about how many caregivers are doing the same thing right now. Parents, teachers, nurses, therapists, friends, neighbors, and family members are investing in people every day without knowing what the outcome will be. They are encouraging someone who feels discouraged. They are helping someone learn a new skill. They are offering support to someone who feels like giving up. They are planting seeds that may not bloom for years. The beautiful thing about bold love is that it often changes lives quietly. There is no spotlight. There is no applause. There are simply people who choose to keep showing up because they care. Mrs. Harmon may never have realized the impact she had on my life, but I carry that impact with me every day. Her courage, persistence, and belief in me helped shape the person I would become. As caregivers, we may never fully know the difference we are making in someone's life. We may not see immediate results. We may wonder if our efforts matter. But loving boldly means continuing anyway. It means trusting that our kindness, patience, and encouragement are making a difference, even when we cannot yet see it. Today, I am grateful for Mrs. Harmon. I am grateful that she loved me boldly. And I am grateful for all of the Mighty Caregivers who continue to love boldly in the lives of others every single day.
June 11th, 2026 Scripture: 1 Corinthians 12:12 "Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body." Devotion: God created each of us with a purpose. Sometimes our role may seem small compared to others, but every part matters. When we faithfully use the gifts and opportunities God has given us, we help create something greater than ourselves. Never underestimate the difference your presence can make. Tip: Take a moment today to thank someone whose contributions often go unnoticed. Reminder: Your role matters more than you realize. One of my favorite memories from high school is band camp. I played the baritone, and there were only four of us in the entire section. Because there were so few of us, I always felt a lot of pressure to do well. If one of us missed our part, it was noticeable. I recall a particular marching band song where the baritone section played a significant role. For most of the performance, we blended in with the rest of the band. But during one section of the music, the baritones carried a part that stood out. It was one of those moments where we had to get the notes exactly right. We practiced it repeatedly. We listened carefully. We worked together. We knew people were counting on us. When performance day arrived, we nailed it. I still remember the feeling. It was not because people were cheering for the baritones. Most people probably had no idea what part we were playing. What I remember is knowing that our small section had contributed something important to the whole performance. As I look back, I think caregiving is a lot like that. Many caregivers feel like they are part of a small section. They quietly do their part without much recognition. They show up day after day, helping family members, friends, neighbors, and strangers. Much of what they do happens behind the scenes. There are times when caregiving feels like carrying pressure. Some responsibilities cannot be ignored. People are depending on you. Some days it may feel like no one notices your contribution. But your role matters. Just like our baritone section had a part that only we could play, every caregiver has something unique to offer. Your kindness, your patience, your encouragement, and your presence may seem small, but they are part of something much bigger. One of the lessons I learned from band camp is that every section matters. The music only comes together when everyone contributes their part. The same is true in our communities. Care happens because ordinary people choose to show up and do what they can. You may never stand in the spotlight. Most caregivers do not. But the lives you touch are better because you showed up and played your part. And sometimes, just like that baritone section years ago, you discover that your contribution was more important than you realized.
June 12th, 2026 Scripture: 1 John 4:19 "We love because he first loved us." Devotion: Unconditional love does not depend on performance, success, or circumstances. It chooses to care even when the path is difficult. God loves us not because of what we accomplish, but because we are His. As we experience that love, we become better able to share it with others. Tip: Show kindness to someone today without expecting anything in return. Reminder: Love is often most powerful when it is given freely. When I think about unconditional love, I think about my parents. Growing up with a significant hearing loss was not always easy. There were challenges that other children did not face. There were speech lessons, hearing tests, appointments, frustrations, and moments when I felt different from everyone around me. Through all of it, my parents were there. They did not love me because I succeeded. They did not love me because I got everything right. They did not love me only when things were going well. They loved me on the good days and the difficult days. They loved me when I was frustrated. They loved me when I was stubborn. They loved me when I struggled. As a child, I probably took that love for granted. Most children do. We assume our parents will always be there. We do not always stop to think about the sacrifices they make or the worries they carry on our behalf. As I have gotten older, I have come to appreciate what a gift that kind of love truly is. Unconditional love does not keep score. It does not constantly remind us of our mistakes. It does not disappear when life becomes difficult. Instead, it remains steady. It stays present. It continues showing up. I have seen that same kind of love in many caregivers over the years. I have seen spouses stand beside one another through illness. I have seen parents advocate for their children. I have seen friends remain loyal during difficult seasons. I have seen caregivers continue loving people through challenges, setbacks, and uncertainty. The world often teaches us that love should be earned. Caregivers understand something different. They understand that the most meaningful love is often given freely. That does not mean it is easy. Unconditional love requires patience. It requires grace. It requires a willingness to keep showing up when there is no guarantee of immediate results. When I think about the people who have shaped my life, I realize that many of them loved me this way. They believed in me when I doubted myself. They encouraged me when I was discouraged. They stayed when it would have been easier to walk away. Their love changed me. I believe that is one of the greatest gifts caregivers offer the world. They remind people that they are valued, not because of what they can do, but because of who they are. That is how God loves us. And when we choose to love others in that same way, we become a reflection of His love in the world. Today, I am grateful for the people who loved me unconditionally. Their care helped shape the person I am today. My hope is that each of us will find opportunities to offer that same gift to someone else.
June 13th, 2026 Scripture: Hebrews 12:2 "Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith." Devotion: It is easy to become distracted by the demands of life. We can spend so much time reacting to what is urgent that we lose sight of what is important. God invites us to stay focused on His purpose for our lives. When we keep our eyes on Him, we gain clarity, direction, and the strength to continue moving forward. Tip: Take a few minutes today to reflect on what matters most and whether your actions are supporting that purpose. Reminder: A clear focus helps us care for ourselves and others more effectively. There was a time in my life when I was not very focused. I had ideas. Lots of ideas. I would get excited about one project, then another. I would start something new, then find myself moving in a different direction. I was passionate about helping people, but if I am honest, I was not always clear about how I was supposed to do it. I think many caregivers can relate to that feeling. We spend so much time responding to needs that we sometimes lose sight of our own direction. We become busy. We become distracted. We focus on what is right in front of us instead of what God may be calling us toward. Over the past year, something has changed for me. I have become more intentional about caring for myself. I have started walking more. I have surrounded myself with people who encourage me. I have become more consistent in prayer, reflection, and healthy habits. I have learned that self care is not something I do once in a while. It is something I practice every day. As I became more intentional about caring for myself, something else happened. My purpose became clearer. I realized that God has called me to encourage caregivers. He has called me to connect people with resources, relationships, and opportunities that help them care for themselves and others. He has called me to share stories that inspire hope. For years, I was searching for the right direction. Today, I feel like I have found it. That does not mean everything is perfect. It does not mean I have all the answers. In fact, one of the things I have learned is that I do not want all the answers. I am always looking for people who can add insight, wisdom, and new ways of thinking about care. Some of the best ideas I have discovered have come from conversations with caregivers, friends, community members, and people willing to share their experiences. Every person sees care through a different lens, and I believe we become better caregivers when we remain open to learning from one another. That is one of the reasons I enjoy writing the Mighty Caregivers Circle. It creates opportunities for conversations. It allows people to share their stories, perspectives, and experiences. I have learned that caregiving is not something one person figures out alone. We grow when we listen. We grow when we ask questions. We grow when we are willing to consider a new perspective. I have learned that focus is not about doing everything. It is about doing the things that matter most. When we stay focused on our purpose, we make better decisions. We use our energy wisely. We become less distracted by things that pull us away from what is truly important. The same is true in caregiving. There will always be challenges. There will always be distractions. There will always be more needs than we can meet by ourselves. But when we stay focused on loving God, caring for ourselves, learning from others, and serving people with compassion, we can move forward with confidence. One of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves is clarity. Knowing who we are. Knowing what matters. Knowing where God is leading us. Today, I am grateful for the focus God has given me. I am grateful for the people who continue to challenge me, encourage me, and share new ideas about care. Most of all, I am grateful that God never stopped guiding me, even during the seasons when I felt uncertain. Sometimes finding your direction is not about discovering something new. Sometimes it is about finally seeing clearly what God has been showing you all along.
June 14th, 2026 Scripture: Amos 7:8 "Look, I am setting a plumb line among my people." Scripture: Colossians 1:10 "Live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way." Devotion: God calls us to live lives that are aligned with His love, justice, and compassion. Just as a builder uses a weighted string to make sure a wall is straight, God gives us His Word to help guide our lives. When we stay connected to Christ, He helps us see clearly, care deeply, and walk faithfully. God's justice is not only about what is right. It is also about how we treat people, especially those who need care, support, and encouragement. Tip: Ask yourself today, "Does my response reflect God's love and compassion?" Reminder: God's love helps keep us aligned with what matters most. One of the images that stands out to me in the book of Amos is the weighted string, sometimes called a plumb line. Builders used it to make sure a wall was straight. If the wall leaned too far in one direction, the weighted string revealed it. It became a point of truth and alignment. In Amos, God uses this image to help people understand that they had drifted away from His ways. They were still going through the motions of faith, but their lives no longer reflected God's heart for justice, mercy, and compassion. I think about that image often when I think about caregiving. As caregivers, it is easy to become distracted by the busyness of life. We have schedules to keep, responsibilities to manage, and problems to solve. Sometimes we become so focused on getting things done that we forget why we are doing them. God's weighted string reminds us to pause and check our alignment. Are we treating people with dignity? Are we showing compassion? Are we caring for those who are struggling? Are we seeing people the way God sees them? The passage from Colossians reminds us that Christ holds all things together. When we stay rooted in Him, our lives begin to produce kindness, patience, love, and good works. We become more focused on what truly matters. Over the years, I have learned that caregiving is not just about meeting needs. It is about seeing people. It is about recognizing their value and worth. It is about making sure our actions reflect God's love. There have been times in my own life when I needed God's weighted string to help me find my direction again. I became busy. I became distracted. I lost focus on what mattered most. Yet God continued to guide me back toward His purpose. Today, when I think about Mighty Caregivers, I see God's weighted string at work. It helps remind me that caregiving is not simply about doing more. It is about loving well. It is about caring for people with compassion. It is about helping create communities where people feel seen, supported, and valued. Justice is not only found in courtrooms and laws. It is also found in everyday acts of care. It is found when we notice someone who is struggling. It is found when we listen to a person who feels unheard. It is found when we make room for people who might otherwise be overlooked. God's weighted string continues to ask an important question: Are we aligned with His heart? As caregivers, that may be one of the most important questions we can ask ourselves. When we stay connected to Christ, He helps us remain focused on what matters most. He helps us love more deeply, serve more faithfully, and care more compassionately. And that is how we help bring God's justice, grace, and love into the world around us.
June 15th, 2026 Scripture: Romans 5:3-4 "Suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope." Devotion: Some of life's most meaningful work requires patience and endurance. We do not always see immediate results. We may wonder if our efforts matter or if the seeds we are planting will ever grow. Yet God calls us to remain faithful. He often works in ways we cannot see and through people we may never meet. Our responsibility is not to know every outcome. Our responsibility is to keep showing up and trust Him with the results. Tip: Focus on being faithful today rather than measuring immediate results. Reminder: God is working even when you cannot see the impact. Lately, I have been thinking a lot about endurance and patience. Mighty Caregivers has become an important part of my life. I spend time writing these stories, building connections, sharing resources, encouraging people, and looking for ways to help those who care for others. Yet if I am honest, there are times when I wonder if any of it is making a difference. I do not know who reads these stories. I do not know if someone has been encouraged on a difficult day because of something I shared. I do not know if a caregiver felt less alone because of Mighty Caregivers. I do not know if a connection I made helped someone find support when they needed it most. The truth is that I have no way of measuring many of those things. Sometimes I find myself asking questions. Do I continue? Do I keep writing? Do I keep building? Do I keep investing my time and energy into something when I cannot always see the results? The answer I keep coming back to is yes. Yes, I continue. Yes, I keep showing up. Yes, I keep trusting. Not because I have proof that every effort is working, but because I believe God has called me to do it. There is a certain kind of faith that requires patience. It is the faith to keep planting seeds even when you cannot yet see growth. It is the faith to keep encouraging people even when they do not always respond. It is the faith to believe that God can use small acts of kindness, simple stories, and everyday conversations to make a difference. I think many caregivers understand this kind of faith. Caregivers often invest tremendous amounts of time and energy into people without seeing immediate results. They continue showing up. They continue loving. They continue encouraging. They continue caring because they believe it matters. Over the past year, I have also realized that part of my calling is not only helping people care for others. It is showing people how I care for myself. For many years, I spent most of my energy focused on helping everyone else. Today, I am much more intentional about caring for my own physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health. I walk. I pray. I spend time with people who encourage me. I look for opportunities to learn and grow. I share that journey openly because I believe caregivers need examples of self care just as much as they need encouragement. Maybe that is part of what Mighty Caregivers is becoming. Not just a place where we talk about caring for others, but a place where we learn how to care for ourselves so we can continue caring for others. I still do not know all the ways God may be using this work. But I trust that He is. Endurance is not about having all the answers. Patience is not about knowing the outcome. Faith is continuing to move forward even when the path ahead is not completely clear. So I will keep writing. I will keep connecting. I will keep encouraging. I will keep caring. And I will trust God with the results.
June 16th, 2026 Scripture: Matthew 5:9 "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God." Devotion: Peace is not the absence of conflict. True peace is found when we trust God enough to walk through difficult situations with courage, grace, and love. Peacemakers do not avoid problems. They help bring understanding, healing, and respect to challenging moments. God can give us the wisdom and confidence to face difficult conversations with compassion. Tip: The next time you face a difficult conversation, please feel free to pause and pray before responding. Reminder: God can give you peace even in uncomfortable situations. For most of my life, I would have described myself as a peacekeeper. I did not like confrontation. I did not like uncomfortable conversations. If there was tension in a room, I wanted it to disappear as quickly as possible. I wanted everyone to get along. I wanted people to be happy. If I am honest, I often worried about disappointing people. Looking back, I realize that much of my peacekeeping came from discomfort. Conflict made me uneasy. Difficult conversations made me nervous. Sometimes I would avoid addressing a problem because I did not want someone to become upset. I remember one simple example from high school. On many late Friday nights, my friends would decide to go to Taco Bell after football games and activities. The funny thing is that I did not like Taco Bell. To this day, I still do not like Taco Bell. What I really wanted was Pizza Hut. But I did not want to disappoint my friends or create conflict over something as simple as where we were going to eat. So I went along with the group. I chose to enjoy the time together rather than insist on getting my own way. Looking back, I can see that this was one of my earliest experiences as a peacekeeper. The relationship mattered more to me than the menu. Eventually, something interesting happened. We started going to Pizza Hut too. I never had to choose between the people and the pizza. But that experience taught me that I naturally leaned toward preserving harmony and making sure everyone else was okay. As I have reflected on this, I have also come to believe that we need both peacekeepers and peacemakers. Both serve an important purpose and provide wonderful opportunities to help people. Peacekeepers often create calm during difficult moments. They help soothe emotions, offer reassurance, and remind people of their shared humanity. Their desire for harmony can bring comfort and stability when tensions are high. Peacemakers, on the other hand, help people move through conflict toward understanding and resolution. They are willing to address difficult issues with honesty, compassion, and grace. The world needs people who can calm the storm, and it also needs people who can guide others through it. Both roles matter when they are rooted in love and guided by wisdom. The challenge is that peacekeeping alone does not always create lasting peace. Sometimes it simply postpones it. Sometimes people still feel unheard. Sometimes important issues remain unresolved. Sometimes, everyone is trying to be nice, but no one is being honest. What I am learning is that peacekeeping becomes most powerful when it is paired with the courage of peacemaking. Over the past year, I have noticed something changing in me. I find myself becoming less focused on avoiding difficult situations and more focused on helping people work through them. I am becoming more comfortable having conversations that I once would have avoided. I am learning that caring for people sometimes means saying hard things with kindness. It means setting boundaries. It means helping people understand one another. It means being willing to step into uncomfortable moments instead of walking around them. I think I am becoming more of a peacemaker while still appreciating the gifts that peacekeepers bring. One of the reasons for that change is my growing trust in God. When I was trying to keep everyone happy, I often felt responsible for everyone's feelings. I wanted to make sure no one was disappointed, frustrated, or upset. The problem is that no one can carry that responsibility. Today, I find myself trusting God more. I trust that I can be honest and compassionate at the same time. I trust that difficult conversations do not have to damage relationships. I trust that caring for people sometimes means helping them hear things they may not want to hear. I trust that God can work through uncomfortable situations. Recently, I found myself in a conversation where one person interrupted another. In the past, I would have immediately shifted my attention to avoid making anyone uncomfortable. Instead, I tried to honor both people. I explained that the current conversation was important and that the person waiting would have my full attention as soon as we finished. At first, the person became upset. For a moment, I felt that familiar discomfort. But instead of retreating, I stayed present. I calmly explained that both conversations mattered. I wanted to hear what they had to say, and I also wanted to respect the person who was already speaking. Something interesting happened. The tension eased. Understanding grew. And everyone felt heard. That experience reminded me that peacemaking is not about making everyone happy. It is about helping people feel valued while staying grounded in respect, truth, and compassion. As caregivers, we face these situations. We help people navigate emotions, frustrations, misunderstandings, and competing needs. We often find ourselves standing in the middle, trying to care for everyone involved. The good news is that we do not have to do it alone. God walks with us. He gives us wisdom when we are unsure. He gives us courage when we feel uncomfortable. He gives us peace when situations become difficult. I still do not enjoy conflict, but I am no longer afraid of it. I am learning that peacekeeping and peacemaking are not enemies. They can work together. Peacekeeping offers comfort, gentleness, and calm. Peacemaking offers courage, honesty, and healing. Both are gifts that can be used to care for others. The more I trust God, the more I understand when each is needed. The more I trust Him, the more comfortable I become in difficult situations. Not because the situations are easier, but because I know I do not have to face them alone.
June 17th, 2026 Scripture: Jeremiah 29:11 "For surely I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope." Devotion: Change and loss can evoke a range of emotions. It is okay to grieve what has been meaningful to us. At the same time, faith reminds us that endings are not always the end of the story. God continues to work through transitions, uncertainties, and new beginnings. Even when we cannot see what comes next, we can trust that God is still present and still leading. Tip: When you are facing a difficult transition, allow yourself to acknowledge both your grief and your hope. You do not have to choose one or the other. Reminder: God is not finished with your story yet. Recently, I saw something on Facebook that made my stomach turn. The church where I grew up in Richmond, Indiana, is up for sale. Seeing the listing brought a flood of memories and emotions. I immediately thought about the sanctuary, the hallways, the classrooms, and the people who shaped my faith and my life. I thought about the many Mighty Caregivers I have known through that church and community. I also found myself feeling compassion for friends who were responding to the news with sadness, disbelief, and grief. Am I upset? Yes. There is a part of me that aches when I think about it. Churches are more than buildings. They hold baptisms, weddings, funerals, potlucks, choir practices, Vacation Bible Schools, and countless conversations that shape who we become. They are places where friendships are formed, where people show up for one another, and where faith is nurtured through ordinary moments. It is hard to imagine those walls belonging to someone else. At the same time, I know there is more to the story. The reality is that the church has been planning to relocate to another location. The congregation can no longer sustain such a large building with its current number of people attending and supporting the church. The decision was not made lightly. It comes from a desire to continue the ministry, even if it looks different than it once did. As I have processed all of this, I have found myself returning to a simple phrase that feels right to me: "God is not finished with this story yet." I do not know what the next chapter looks like. I do not know where the church will worship. I do not know how God will use this transition. I do not know what new opportunities may emerge. But I believe there is still a story unfolding, and I believe God has a plan. That thought brings me comfort. Faith does not mean pretending we are not disappointed. It does not mean ignoring the sadness that comes with change. Faith allows us to say, "I am hurting," while also saying, "I trust that God is still at work." I think many caregivers understand this tension. We often walk with people through seasons of loss and uncertainty. We cannot always explain why things change. We cannot always fix what is broken. But we can hold on to hope. We can trust that God sees a bigger picture than we do. As I think about my childhood church, I realize that what mattered most was never the bricks and mortar. It was the people. It was the Sunday school teachers who invested in children. It was the choir members who shared their gifts. It was the ministers who offered guidance. It was the friends who became family. It was the countless Mighty Caregivers who showed up to bring casseroles, teach classes, organize events, visit those who were hurting, and quietly love others in the name of Christ. Those things cannot be sold. Those memories cannot be listed on a real estate website. Those acts of love continue to live on in the people whose lives were touched. So yes, my stomach still turns when I think about it. Yes, I grieve what is changing. But I also choose hope. I choose to believe that God is not finished with this story yet. Perhaps that is true for all of us. The chapters we treasure may come to an end, but God keeps writing. New beginnings emerge from unexpected places. Communities adapt. Faith grows. Love continues. The story is not over. God is still writing it.